Monday, November 29, 2010
FAQs re: Discovery Church & the EPC
When Discovery Church was forming, we decided very early on that we wanted to be connected to a larger network of churches. As we began evaluating potential networks to partner with, we chose to align ourselves with the Evangelical Presbyterian Church (EPC). We chose the EPC because of agreement in core doctrinal teaching, how they handled essential issues vs. non-essentials, and church government.
The EPC is a Reformed denomination tracing its roots back to John Calvin and the Reformation. It looks to Scripture as a primary source of wisdom and knowledge in theological matters. It also draws on one of the great theological statements in church history, The Westminster Confession. These roots united us with church history and served as an anchor as we established our identity as a particular church.
The EPC is an evangelical denomination as well, which was equally important to our board. The core beliefs of an evangelical church center on the person and work of Jesus Christ, a high view of Scripture, and a strong belief in the gospel (euangelion in the Greek). The EPC expresses these core beliefs in its’ Essentials. In the Essentials, the denomination has complete unity. In non-essential issues (like women in ministry, spiritual gifts, etc.), the church shows a great amount of grace.
Finally, EPC churches reflect a presbyterian form of church government. They are led by elders who seek the will of God on behalf of the congregation. We did not want to place too much control in one individual (as episcopal polity might). We did not want too much control placed within the masses either (as congregational polity might). We wanted godly leaders to wrestle with the issues on behalf of the congregation.
In addition to these reasons, we loved what we saw in the Midwest Presbytery. We enjoyed the fellowship of churches working together in an area to advance the gospel. We delighted in seeing them address missions in a way that led to people going to serve others around the world. We loved that they took important issues like church discipline and ordination very seriously.
2) Is there a problem with the Presbytery or denomination that caused this?
To quote our southern friends: “Heavens no.” By no means is this recommendation rooted in a sense of failure by the Midwest Presbytery or the Evangelical Presbyterian Church in any manner.
3) If not, why are the elders recommending we seek dismissal to independence now?
The recommendation has more to do with the idea of merging into the One Life Network than as a reaction to anything EPC-related.
Several months ago, Trey met with one of the One Life elders to discuss what the Network would look like. There are several different models of networks or associations in the church-world. Some are very loosely tied together churches (like the Willow Creek Association or Life Church.tv -- Open). In these types of networks, churches come together for leadership training or might share creative elements, but maintain their own teaching, leadership, church identity. Another model would be a tighter network where churches actually joined together (or merged) and began to share the same identity (an example of this would be LifeChurch.tv -- United). In between these two ends of the spectrum are a variety of other network or associational connections. As the vision for the One Life Network was shared with Trey, the question was raised of whether Discovery Church would be interested in partnering at that level. Trey referred that question to the Discovery Church Session.
Discovery’s elders met and decided that they wanted to learn more about One Life and what the network would really look like before they made any decisions. The elders attended a preview service intended for the One Life -- Henderson Children’s ministry volunteers prior to its launch. They met a few days later with several members of the One Life board to discuss vision, mission, and strategy questions. Following that meeting, the Discovery elders each completed a SWOT analysis on the issue of merging with One Life. They determined that there were no “red flags” and would enter into a more dedicated season of prayer. At the end of that time, they met again and determined that they felt God’s leading to continue the discussion of what this merger might look like. Following another meeting with the One Life board, the Discovery elders met together, prayed, and voted unanimously to recommend that Discovery Church seek release from the Midwest Presbytery to independence so that we could merge into the One Life Network.
Again, let us reiterate: this has more to do with the sense of God leading us to partner with One Life than anything else. There is no condemnation or judgement of the Midwest Presbytery or the EPC in this recommendation.
4) What is the process for dealing with this recommendation?
One of the beauty’s of the EPC is that they have a very defined Book of Order that lays out clearly the process that guides us in the steps ahead. The first step is to notify the Presbytery about the recommendation. Trey did this on Friday, November 26th by sending an email to the stated clerk of the Presbytery. John Manon, the clerk, responded with a gracious note that the Presbytery will walk through this process with us and wishing us the Lord’s blessing and guidance.
The next step is to have a congregational meeting in which the recommendation is discussed. The Discovery Church elders have called a congregational meeting for Sunday, January 9th at 11:30 AM. The meeting will be held at Bob’s Gym West with a lunch and childcare provided. There will be no vote at this meeting. At that meeting, a second congregational meeting will be scheduled where a vote will be held. Presbytery will have the chance to have representatives at each of those meetings.
In the interim period, we hope to introduce you to the One Life leadership, give you a chance to hear their vision for ministry in the Tri-State area, and ask them your questions as well. We will also be letting you hear why our leadership team (the staff & elders) are excited about the possibilities that merging with the One Life Network would afford us. Finally, we will also be answering some frequently asked questions (FAQs) online. If you have specific questions, we encourage you to contact one of our elders.
Sunday, November 28, 2010
Second Look @ Sunday
- I'm always blown away by the faithfulness of our set-up team. Even though it was in the 30s this AM, they were there unloading the trailer and working hard.
- Got to see one of my favorite persons in the world this morning. Always awesome to see Ellen, my favorite Connecticuter.
- Our musicians are so flexible. It is always interesting to see what instruments that Dan Wilson & Nick Smith will be playing.
- Wonder what the response to the programs formerly known as the "World's Tiniest Church Programs" was?
- Our Childrens Ministry team does such a great job. And the leader is smokin' hot.
- Big idea from the sermon: What is your perception of Jesus? Because how you perceive Him effects how you respond to Him.
- Big announcement: The elders of Discovery Church have recommended that the church seeks release to independence from the EPC and then to merge into the One Life Network. We'll be answering questions about this over the next several months both in congregational meetings and via FAQs here on the blog.
Saturday, November 20, 2010
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Tuesday, November 2, 2010
From the Mouth of Babes
Sunday, October 31, 2010
Second Look @ Sunday
- Our set-up team is amazing. They did a great job unloading the trailer today, even if I had booby-trapped it by switching everything around over the weekend.
- Our phenomenal drummer, Chet, found some great lights on a killer deal that we got to install on our light tree today.
- Our band has been really gelling over the last few weeks. Thanks for all your hard work.
- Saw a high-school classmate today. She and her husband came to Discovery with her sister & brother-in-law. She had no clue that I was the pastor (probably why she was willing to come).
- Alex Tindle stepped up as the host for this morning's service. It was his first time in that capacity. Excellent work friend.
- Janet Oberholtzer, our small groups guru, experienced a first as well. She taught in our Childrens' Ministry area. Thanks for filling in the gap Janet!
- Since I forgot to say it in the service this morning: Happy Birthday Zayden Harper! You're an incredible little four year old. Now keep away from my daughters.
- Got a chance to see some great friends who God is doing amazing things through also today.
- Spent the afternoon with the girls. The only downside was that Alyssa still had a smokin' hot fever.
Monday, October 25, 2010
Second Look @ Sunday
- The Discovery band is really starting to jell. I love watching people serve out of giftedness and passion.
- We celebrated the sacrament of communion. It is incredible to join with the Church throughout the ages in experiencing the grace of God.
- Had a bit of a scare when someone passed out/fainted in the parking lot while leaving. Our volunteers did an outstanding job of being on top of the situation and immediately got emergency responders there. Not something that we ever wanted to test, but great knowing that our volunteers are paying attention.
- Speaking of volunteers: so thankful for our Childrens Ministry team. Week after week we have individuals who are willing to sacrifice their own time in worship to serve God and others. Thanks for all the hard work.
- While we were worshiping at AMC Stadium 16, Jack Young (one of our elders) was wrapping up a weekend serving with Kairos at Wabash Valley Correctional Facility. Despite my testimony, they allowed him to return home.
- Talked finances during a pre-marital counseling session. Honor God by being a good steward of what He has entrusted to you (applies in so many areas of your life).
- My girls are amazing. Morgan had us cracking up after failing to get the lights turned on. "I can't. I have short arms." Too cute. She then repeated the "short arms" line a dozen times.
Wednesday, September 1, 2010
Second Look @ Sunday
- The worship team did a fantastic job. Bummed that so many people enjoyed the free coffee and missed the first song though.
- It was neat to wrap up the book of Philippians. I always enjoy teaching straight through a book of Bible. It's great to come across powerful verses in the context that they were originally written.
- At the same time, I'm getting excited about the new sermon sermon series. We launch "At the Movies 2010" this Sunday.
- It's always awesome and inspiring to celebrate communion together as a community.
- Thanks to our Children's Ministry volunteers. You guys bring fresh excitement to kids each week.
- From what I hear, Brandi Hollen did a fantastic job of speaking on the USI campus.
- Had a lot of fun working the Discovery Church booth with Janet Oberholtzer, Martha Duckworth, Brandi, and my family following the service.
- I might have overwhelmed a student from Minnesota when I gave him a full-bag of peanut-butter cookies. Not sure he knew what to think.
- Thanks to all the cookie-makers. You're much more talented than me. I burned the chocolate.
Monday, August 30, 2010
The Big News

So for the last few days, I've been promising BIG news regarding Discovery Church. Yesterday morning, we made the announcement during our worship service. So what's the big news?
Christa and I sat outside of Starbucks and talked about the amazing things that we had seen God doing around us in the past few months. We celebrated God's provision for two new lungs for her husband, Mike. We shared about the joys and struggles in church planting. Before we left, I had asked Christa to pray about joining the Discovery team as our worship leader. The next day, she called and informed me that she felt God opening an incredible opportunity and was excited to be a part of that team.
Wednesday, August 25, 2010
Second Look @ Sunday
- Christa Shore and the team at Beyond the Veil Fellowship are so great to work with.
- Was exciting to be a part of the record-setting service at BTVF. I'm sure it was because the word leaked out that I was teaching.
- After the band had led worship on Saturday night, I was done. I had been to church and spoke with God. Alas, I still taught.
- I found out that there is something worse than fish sticks. It would be burnt fish sticks.
- I was so worn out by the end of Saturday that I completely forgot to print the "World's Tiniest Church Programs." I think we made do at Discovery Church without them.
- Despite being beat, I think the message was communicated clearly.
- I've started a problem at a local middle school. Apparently a group of girls that were visiting Discovery this weekend took literally my phrase, "Jesus loves you; I hope you go to hell." Ooops!
- Had someone tell me that a friend came to Discovery Church this weekend. She felt like the message spoke right to her. She says it was the first time that she felt a sermon connect with her life.
- Excited to be wrapping up Philippians this weekend. Don't miss it!
Monday, August 23, 2010
Great Church Planter Event
Vince and his family moved from Virginia Beach, VA to Las Vegas to plant a new church, Verve. The design was to reach those who were being overlooked in the status quo. It has been exciting to watch God work through Vince and the team at Verve.
This October, Vince will be hosting a (relatively cheap) conference in Las Vegas for church planters. He'll be opening up the Vault to share the DNA of why they have done things the way they do and how to reach people who do not like church. If you want more information about the event, you can find it here.
Friday, August 20, 2010
Shh Mom. I'm Reading My Bible

Got a text message following our first week of Children's Programming at Discovery. Here's what it said:
Thursday, August 19, 2010
People are People

Wednesday, August 18, 2010
Old School Connections
e Bass section in one song. Tuesday, August 17, 2010
Second Look @ Sunday
- Our set-up team does a fantastic job of unloading and getting everything ready to go each Sunday. Thanks for all you do.
- Shari Devine and Katy Olson sounded great together. You guys should do that more often.
- Missed Bobby G and the rest of the band though. Looking forward to seeing them next month.
- Loved the passage from Sunday. Philippians 3 kicks series tail.
- The Connection Lunch was awesome. Over 30 people gathered around the biggest table in Los Bravos history to share chips, salsa and lots of great conversations.
- Told our waiter that Marty Smith was my dad. Marty's face was priceless.
- Had a great time seeing an old friend and her precious little (almost) 3 year old boy.
Saturday, August 14, 2010
Follow a Planter: Kevin Wilson

Friday, August 13, 2010
Awestruck by My Kids (Part Two)

Thursday, August 12, 2010
Awestruck by My Kids (Part One)

My kids have left me awestruck a few times over the past week. Here's the first story.
Wednesday, August 11, 2010
Back to School, Back to School
Most of the E-VSC starts back to school today including our first grader, Alyssa. Praying for the teachers, staff and students to have a terrific year. Praying that God would use Mrs. Allgood to teach Alyssa and help her grow "in wisdom and stature, in favor with God and all the people" (Luke 2:52).
Tuesday, August 10, 2010
Second Look @ Sunday
- I tried to put the finishing touches on the sermon on Friday night. One small problem: my computer contracted the antivir pro virus. Basically it is a virus that acts like an anti-virus. It completely locked up my computer for hours. If you find yourself fighting this beast, check out the great help that I found here.
- I woke up with a wicked stomach ailment. Kicked my tail until the early afternoon.
- Dan & Stephanie did a great job of trying to teach some new music this weekend. If you liked what you heard, you can find more from their inspiration, Shawn McDonald, on his website.
- Our new Childrens (K-5) theater kicked off weekly this weekend. Kitten and her team did a great job but were caught by surprise when our attendance for that theater doubled any of the preview services that we ran this summer.
- Did a dedication for an awesome young family. Love the Harpers.
- Lots of guests: that has been the theme for the past month. Really excited to see so many keep coming back.
- My softball team took another beating but at least we hit the ball this week. The next two weeks should get easier as the pros start playing each other again and we can play equally talented (or lack thereof) teams.
- Prayer request: Lots of meetings this week that I can definitely use wisdom and discernment for. Exciting things in the works at Bob's Gym and Discovery Church.
Award Winning Morgan

One of the talented students at Discovery Church snapped a photo of Morgan while we serving at Riverwalk Communities on the 4th of July. She edited the photo and then submitted it for the Vanderburgh County 4H Fair. Her great photography and God's beautiful design combined to earn her a blue ribbon and the title of Reserve Champion. Personally, I think she was robbed. She should have won. What do you think?
Monday, March 15, 2010
Website Redesigned
Sunday, March 14, 2010
Second Look @ Sunday
- Thanks to Nick Smith. He played at Little Cheers all night and then came to lead God's people in worship. That is some hard work. Especially grateful since the rest of the vocalists either had no voice or were puking.
- Another thank you to Bill Rasch, Kevin Wilson, Carol Fehr, and Cheryl Kuchna for doing the work of the Presbytery this morning. Discovery was officially constituted as a particular church this morning.
- I was also installed as Discovery's pastor this morning.
- By the way, Kevin has a new blog. Good stuff coming. Check it out here.
- I continue to be amazed at how the authors of the Old Testament prophesied so much about the Passion of Christ. Psalm 22 blew me away.
- God has a heart that is very much concerned with the injustices of this world. God paid the penalty for our injustices.
- Luckily one of those injustices was not the Florida Gators getting left out of the NCAA tournament. The committee got at least that one right.
Sunday, March 7, 2010
Second Look @ Sunday
- Kitten and I got to see my cousin, Jim, last night. His band, Dangerous Jim & the Slims, were playing Casino Aztar this weekend. He's great at fronting the band.
- Alyssa had her first sleepover this weekend. She spent the night (with Kitten) at a friend's house. She had a great night.
- I'm continually amazed by our set-up team. They are so good at what they do.
- We're making some major upgrades at Discovery over the next few weeks.
- The new website goes online this week. Eric Gustafson has done an incredible job with it. Check out some of his other work here.
- Taught on forgiveness this weekend. Easier to talk about than it is to do. This week several people have committed to seeking out people that they need to forgive. Tough work that can change their lives.
Saturday, February 27, 2010
A Trip to the Evansville Public Library
- Seth Godin, Linchpin: View Seth's blog.
- Brian McLaren, A New Kind of Christianity.
- Tony Jones, The Teaching of the 12. View Tony's blog.
While I don't always agree with these guys, they push my thinking. Processing where they have arrived always makes me a better reader, writer, and thinker.
Sunday, February 21, 2010
Second Look @ Sunday
- I believe the city of Evansville has invested too much money on stop lights. Let's save some electricity and unplug a few.
- Why is it that you only get stopped at said stop lights, when you are already running late (or really close to being late)?
- Our set-up team at Discovery Church is incredible. Thanks for all your hard work!
- Won a quarter on a bet. Gambling tip: Don't bet on content with someone who wrote the content.
- Nice to get to sit and learn this morning. Janet did a great job.
- Had no idea that Ruth followed Proverbs in the Hebrew Bible, thus showing Ruth as the quintessential example of Proverbs 31. Did you know that?
- God can use your past to bring beauty in the present.
- Is God wanting to use you to answer your own prayers?
- Sunday naps are so awesome. Thankful for a great wife who allowed it to happen.
- Mickey Mouse Clubhouse is pretty tolerable is you are cuddling with two really cute girls.
- Proud of my coach, Bob Franquiz, whose church, Calvary Fellowship, launched a new campus today. Sounds like it went great.
Thursday, August 13, 2009
John Calvin Quote of the Day

"For, until men feel that they owe everything to God, that they are cherished by his paternal care, and that he is the author of all their blessings, so that naught is to be looked for away from him, they will never submit to him in voluntary obedience; no, unless they place their entire happiness in him, they will never yield up their whole selves to him in truth and sincerity." -- Institutes, Book First, Chapter 2
Wednesday, August 12, 2009
John Calvin Quote of the Day
Through him and for his name's sake
Sunday, June 28, 2009
One Prayer: Scott Hodge
Monday, June 22, 2009
Sunday, June 21, 2009
One Prayer: Perry Noble
Sunday, April 26, 2009
What Would Jesus Say to President Obama? (parts 3 & 4)
Wednesday, April 22, 2009
What Would Jesus Say to President Obama? (part two)
- “I got my middle name from somebody who obviously didn't think I'd ever run for President."
- "If I had to name my greatest strength, I guess it would be my humility. Greatest weakness? It's possible that I'm a little too awesome.”

Tuesday, April 21, 2009
What Would Jesus Say to President Obama?

Dad, I Got Great News
Sunday, April 19, 2009
Sunday Set List
Friday, April 17, 2009
Adventures in U6 Soccer

Thursday, April 16, 2009
What Would Jesus Say to Bono (part three)

Wednesday, April 15, 2009
What Would Jesus Say to Bono (Part Two)

Tuesday, April 14, 2009
What Would Jesus Say to Bono (part one)

Monday, April 13, 2009
By the way...
Monday Mind Dump
- I love Discovery Church. Volunteers yesterday...you rocked. Thanks for the serious hard work.
- Who sits in a dark parking lot at 4:45 AM waiting for some poor sap to come open a gym. Seriously people. Sleep is not such a bad thing.
- Highlight #1 from Easter: After overhearing me tell a little girl how beautiful her dress was, one of our volunteers said, "You can say that. You're a dad. If I said that, I look like a pedophile."
- "Mary...Boo...It's me, Jesus."
- Watching the Hannah Montana movie wasn't so bad, especially with Morgan sleeping in my arms. Doesn't get much better than holding your little girl in your arms.
- Praying that Ridge Church finds a place to meet soon. Even though meeting places aren't that important to being a church.
- Mowing sucks. Anyone who likes the outdoors and would enjoy walking in God's creation for 2.5 hours is more than welcome to come mow my yard anytime they want.
- Speaking of mowing: Broke the mower yesterday. Tree roots suck!
- Excited about what God is doing in Vegas. Viva la Verve!
- Highlight #2 from Easter: Easter lunch. Mom rocked the steak with melting sauce and the aspargus & sun-dried tomato concoction. Awesome.
- Can't wait for this week at Discovery: What Would Jesus Say to President Obama?
Sunday Set List
Here's the set list from Easter at Discovery Church:Sunday, February 22, 2009
Today in Review
- Worship team did well while making adjustments. Darrin, you have some serious pipes.
- Ryan, wishing your guitar well. May it rest in peace. Here's hoping you have another next week.
- "27 + 39 = 66. If you're Catholic, there's even more."
- It's amazing the devotion and sacrifice that so many people made so that we could read God's Word in our own language.
- How am I neglecting God's Word?
- Who's in for making a difference at Tekoppel?
Friday, December 26, 2008
This Sunday @ Discovery
Monday, December 22, 2008
News of the Strange & Stupid
Saturday, December 20, 2008
Quote of the Day
Friday, December 19, 2008
Quote of the Day
This Sunday @ Discovery
Thursday, December 18, 2008
Overcoming the "Religious" Mindset
"While in the Western spiritual tradition we have tended to see the "religious" as one category of life among many (we even call nuns and monks the "religious"), the Hebrew mind has no such distinction about a purely "religious" existence but is concerned with all of life...All of life is sacred when it is placed in relationship to the living God." -- Frost & Hirsch, Shaping of Things to Come
It rocked me. Why do we try to compartmentalize our lives and keep God in the "religious" quadrant? If He truly is God (and that perhaps is the primary question of life), then doesn't He deserve so much more than our Sunday morning box? If He truly is the author and sustainer of all, doesn't He deserve our everything?
I know for me that this is not always easy. I like boxes. It is easy to pull down the Bob's box or the debate box or the Discovery box or the family box. Boxes are okay...if there is a place for God in each box. How am I allowing God to work and move in and through me at Bob's? In the speech & debate community? At Discovery?
What about you? Do you have boxes? Do you have God in the boxes or is He simply on the shelf of your life, waiting on you to acknowledge His presence, His existence?
Wednesday, December 17, 2008
One of the Best 5 Minutes of My Day
Check it out: http://vimeo.com/2535351. Trust me it's worth it.
Quote of the Day
Matthew 11:12 "From the days of John the Baptist until now, the kingdom of heaven has been forcefully advancing, and forceful men lay hold of it."
Today's Big Plans
Also today, lunch with Jeremy to begin thinking about music for the worship services in January ("Chasing the Lion").
Tuesday, December 16, 2008
Irony (Definition of)
The Reason for...
Quote of the Day
Housing Update
- Master Bedroom: get carpeting down, paint closet doors, replace door & hardware
- Dining Room: last coat of paint in closet, replace electrical outlets, replace light switches
- Kitchen: install microwave, install cabinet above microwave
- Laundry Room: rebuild closet, paint ceiling
- Living Room: paint ceiling; replace ceiling fan; replace electrical outlets; prime walls; paint walls; replace window
- Study/Spare Bedroom: another coat on flooring; prime walls; paint walls; replace electrical outlets
- Alyssa's Bedroom: another coat on flooring; prime walls; paint walls; replace electrical outlets; paint doors; rehang doors; replace ceiling fan
- Morgan's Bedroom: paint trim; replace ceiling fan
- Bathroom: replace electrical outlet; rehang mirror; replace light
So...do you want to help with any of this?
Monday, December 15, 2008
Being Amazing
At Discovery, we're going to stop doing a high school/middle school ministry. Why? For several smaller reasons and one big reason. The big reason is simply this. What we're doing now is not amazing. Bob Franquiz, my church-planting coach, dropped this nugget from his church in our last session: "It doesn't have to be perfect; it just has to be amazing." As I evaluated our HS/MS ministry, we were falling short and did not have the resources or energy to get there yet. Someday in the future, we'll re-launch that part of our ministry and it will be amazing.
With all this perculating in my mind, like a fine cup of Pike's Place Roast, I stumbled across a neat article comparing a simpler model for church to Outback Steakhouse. Anything that has to do with Outback can't be all bad.
What's your thoughts? Anything in your life that needs to be eliminated?
Today's Big Plans....
By the way, Bob's new website went live yesterday. Check it out and let me know what you think.
Sunday, December 14, 2008
Christmas Classics
Friday, December 5, 2008
Fred Thompson on Economy
When I was in college, I worked for Sen. Fred Thompson's (R-TN) office. I just wish that he had wanted to run for President while he was running for President.
Thursday, December 4, 2008
Great & Unexpected Acts
- the launch and growth of Discovery Church
- financing for Discovery Church
- a co-worker having a life-changing experience
- my girls' beautiful smiles lighting up rooms
- providing a house for us in the particular sub-division we wanted to live in
- providing an awesome job that helps pay the bills while Discovery grows
What about you? Where do you see God showing up and showing off?
Wednesday, December 3, 2008
Tuesday, December 2, 2008
Experiencing Grace
Thursday, November 27, 2008
I Never...
As I was reading in the Bible tonight, I came across what must have been a really tough "I Never" for Amos. In Amos 7, the prophet is called out by the priest of Israel for speaking out against the king. Amos simply tells the priest that he never wanted to be a preacher, being a prophet wasn't on his top 10 things to do. He was just fine being the cattleman, raising steaks instead of raising the stake.
He then boldly calls out the leadership for the sinfulness and their waywardness. Wow.
Here's my thoughts: (1) Are my ambitions always pure? Am I constantly seeking what God wants most rather than my own desires? (2) Would I have the cajones to call out a king? a leader? Would I be willing to follow God in saying "Your wife will become a whore in town"? What in my life needs to change for me to have that complete and utter trust in Him and His Word?
Wednesday, November 12, 2008
Life After Porn
"After getting our oldest son, Noah, settled with a Blue’s Clues video, Chris motioned me toward the newly-purchased sofa that had arrived just twenty-four hours before as we began our new life in a new town.
"He began by confessing that he had numerous affairs with numerous women from numerous places. My heart began to palpitate while I listened to him. I heard the cracking of my heart as he spoke and felt the devastation setting in almost immediately. As if that information was not enough to handle, he also informed me that one of the women was pregnant, and he was pretty sure the baby was his child."
Read the rest of Cindy Beall's story here.
Monday, November 10, 2008
Going Bi...Vocational (Part Four)
One huge advantage to doing ministry bi-vocationally is decreasing the burden of the church. The Apostle Paul did this over and over again. As he was planting churches, he would make tents. The tent-making would allow him to serve without demands.
As we were beginning our adventure with Discovery Church, I was challenged by the staffing of Muncie Alliance to consider the benefits of being bi-vocational. The staff at MAC has chosen to be bi-vocational so that the resources of the church might go further and enable more ministry to occur. My role at Bob's has allowed me to support my family and be less of a burden for Discovery.
Sunday, November 9, 2008
Sunday Night Dump
- Had two people serving at Discovery for the first time this morning. So cool. Rodney & Theresa did an awesome job with the Starbucks and donuts.
- The worship team sounded so good this morning.
- The tech. demons showed up. Media Shout died on us just as the service began. Let's just say the new rule is: "Save. Save. Save" and we're not just talking about spiritual issues anymore.
- Jack is doing a great job with "Talk to Jack."
- Excited about my Florida Gators football team. They're looking really good.
- Loved it that a family skipped a baptism so that they could come back to Discovery after visiting last week. Hopefully we haven't made the holidays awkward.
- Definitely challenged about how we're spending Thanksgiving.
- Talking about money is never easy, but I think it is healthy for me and the church.
- Got a stinkin' busy week ahead. Three open houses and a Presbytery meeting. Definitely going to need some strength and rest.
- Congratulations Kevin & Emily. When I showed Chloe's pic this morning, the collective response was "Awww."
Saturday, November 1, 2008
Going Bi...Vocational (part three)
The natural outflow of the struggle with time is a struggle for family moments. My family is God's most precious gift to me (aside from salvation of course). I love letting my girls use me as a jungle-gym. I like spending time with my wife. I enjoy our family time together.
It has been said that when you say yes to one thing, you must say no to another. It is a shame that when we say yes to bi-vocational ministry that one area that can easily be overlooked is our family. One of the highlights of my week is when the girls stop by the gym to spend time with me. It makes me happy to see Alyssa sitting on a stool behind the counter "working" by coloring. Awesome! I appreciate those moments, because I do not get enough of them.
For me, I've tried to find ways to get those special moments with the girls. I might stop by the house on my way back from one of the other clubs. After working late one night a couple of weeks ago, I slept in a bit and dropped Alyssa off at school, just so we could have some time together in the morning.
What are you doing to make special time for your family?
Friday, October 31, 2008
Going Bi...Vocational (part two)
Thursday, October 30, 2008
Going Bi...Vocational (part one)
I assumed this last step would be pretty easy. I would blow the dust off the resume, update it a bit and send it to a few places. I knew that the job offers would poor in. After telling Mr. Gates and Mr. Jobs, "Thanks but no thanks," I would take a job managing Mr. Warren Buffet's money...or something like that. That is definitely not what happened.
Over the next few days, I'm going to lay out my experience and the insights that I have gained in the process. Furthermore, if you have been down this path, I would love to hear about your experience and feedback as well.
Wednesday, October 29, 2008
Big Announcement (part three)

The second church plant that we are partnering with has until just recently been called the Vegas Project. Vince Antonucci will be leaving Forefront Church that he helped plant in Virginia Beach, Virginia to go west (young man, go west). He and his family will be moving to Sin City (Las Vegas) in order to help people love God, love people, and turn the world upside down.
I've been reading Vince's blog for a little over a year. He has an incredible sense of humor and a passion for people that is infectious. Vince is the author of I Became a Christian and All I Got Was This Lousy T-Shirt. Not only is this an awesome book (in fact, I gave it to my each of my parents for their birthdays last year), but it had to win an award for longest title in non-Christian fiction that you would actually want to read.
Personally, I am thankful for Vince because when I was searching for help in planting Discovery, he was willing to offer advice through email. A huge blessing that I never thought would actually happen. The two or three emails that we corresponded back and forth were a tremendous aid to me as I struggled to find a coach (more on that this week too).
Tuesday, October 28, 2008
Big Announcement (part two)
The first church that we are partnering with is Ridge Church. Ridge Church is being planted by our best friends from seminary, Kevin & Emily Layne, in Knoxville, Tennessee. As a huge University of Florida Gator fan, my only concern is what can God do in such a reprobate place as Knoxville (home of the University of Tennessee). Yet at the same time, maybe the brokeness of being whipped the last two years by my beloved Gators has them seeking true purpose.
Kevin and Emily are expecting their first child any day...in fact they may have already had her and not had the time to call. Ridge Church has been hosting informational meetings and service projects. To keep track of Ridge Church or to learn how you can partner with them as well, check out their blog.
Monday, October 27, 2008
We Got a Home!!!
Today, we close on our new home. For our daughter's opinion of the new house, check out the video below.
Sunday, October 26, 2008
Big Announcement (part one)

Saturday, October 25, 2008
Super Hero Saturday

Friday, October 24, 2008
I've Been Lazy













