- When a leader gets better, everyone wins.
- QUESTION 1: What is your current leadership challenge level? Are you under-challenged? appropriately challenged? dangerously over-challenged?
- Where do you do your absolutely best work as a leader on this spectrum?
- Leadership is like a muscle. You have to stress it to grow it.
- First Application
- If you’re under-challenged, step it up. If you don’t challenge yourself enough, you’re in danger of atrophy.
- If you’re dangerously over-challenged, you’re in danger of a melt down. You need to find a way to delegate and scale back. You set a bad example for those you lead if you live in this area.
- When you are stressed, you get a lift. When you stay stressed, you’ll flatten out. If you stay in this level, you’ll crash and bottom out in the cellar.
- Second Application
- How do we get a handle on who is being overworked in an organization?
- What do under-challenged people in a department do? They leave.
- Third Application
- Do you think it possible for organizations to be under-challenged, appropriately challenged, or dangerously over-challenged?
- QUESTION 2: What is your plan on dealing with challenging people in your organization?
- If there was a 50% revenue drop, who would you get rid of?
- Line Exercise: Put all your people in order from the ones you would most hate to lose.
- Are the people at the end of the line, off-mission? under-performing? Am I just avoiding tough conversations because we are fully funded?
- Willow’s mission is totally dependent on the people we can attract and develop.
- Our future is also tied to dealing with people who are no longer fantastic.
- How much time are you going to give Fantastic Fred to spread his radioactive poison? I get answers from minutes to years. At Willow, this is 30 days.
- Your staff needs to know how long people can have a bad attitude.
- How do you handle under-performers? Or as the Bible says, no worthy their hire?
- Under-performers need our attention just as soon as it is identified. At Willow, this is 3 months.
- The single toughest challenging people issue I’ve had to deal with is when the growth of an organization requires somebody with a greater capacity to fill that role.
- Takeaway #1: If you don’t deal with challenging people in your organization, you discourage and de-motivate your best people. Fantastic people do not want to be dragged down by whiners and complainers.
- Takeaway #2: Challenging people are not happy people.
- QUESTION 3: Are you naming, facing and resolving the problems in your organization?
- Example: The problem of the feeding of the widows in Acts 6
- Nothing rocks forever. Everything has a season.
- Life-cycle of an idea: Accelerating, Booming, Decelerating, Tanking
- By identifying, we can solve these problems.
- QUESTION 4: When was the last time, you re-examined the core of what your organization is all about?
- Can you put the vision and mission of your organization on the front of a t-shirt?
- We all get fuzzy on what we do over time.
- Exercise: In five words, explain the central message of your product or service. In five words, what best describes the good news of Jesus Christ?
- Hybels answer for himself: Love, Evil, Rescue, Choice, Restoration
- God loved you the moment you started sucking air.
- When you’re clear about the core, there is no end to what God can do.
- QUESTION 5: Have you had your leadership bell rung lately? Has any leadership book or talk or crisis rocked your world lately?
- Most of us are hard-headed leadership types; we need our bells rung occasionally.
- If you’re sick enough of being stuck, you’d get on the solution-side of this problem and you’d take action.
- Quit making excuses and start making bold, new solutions.
- There is too much at stake in this world for leaders to walk around with a defeated mindset.
- Why couldn’t the next five years be your best five years?
- How you finish is how you will be remembered.
Thursday, August 11, 2011
Bill Hybels -- Session 1 -- “5 Critical Questions for Leaders”
Tuesday, June 14, 2011
Upcoming One Life West Training Dates

Tuesday, May 31, 2011
Why I Didn't Preach Last Weekend
Reason #1: We have talented teachers who need to be given the opportunity to grow and use their gifts.
At Discovery, we've been blessed with some incredibly talented teachers. Yesterday, one of those talented individuals, Janet Oberholtzer, got the opportunity to share about the purpose of and her passion for ministry to college-students. Each time she has preached, she has done a good job...and she's grown in that gifting. Later this summer, you'll have the opportunity to learn from Matt Breivogel, another young, gifted teacher in our midst. I look forward to teaching more at Discovery (and One Life) in the days ahead. However, some times it is good for me and for the body of Christ for others to have the opportunity to share what God is teaching them.
Reason #2: I was serving in KIDS ministry.
Our KIDS ministry rocks! The team does a great job each week in preparing quality lessons that teach and grow our kids. And our KIDS ministry is growing. Sunday, I got the opportunity to pour myself into the life of the kids for one morning. They got to know that their pastor loves them, cares about them, can be goofy, and wants them to love Jesus. All very important lessons in my book. Another exciting part of leading in our KIDS ministry was the chance to teach my incredible 7 year old. Dads, it is so cool to get to lead and love your kids and set great examples for other kids at church.
Thursday, May 26, 2011
How to Think Missionally

Wednesday, April 20, 2011
What's Next?
The big question I’ve been getting is: What’s next?
One step is to connect. As the automotive great Henry Ford said, “Coming together is the beginning. Keeping together is progress. Working together is success.” As we become One Life West, we need to get to know each. Build relationships across the church. We’ll be giving you some specific ways that you can connect with others and creating some opportunities for this to happen.
Another beginning step we will be taking is train. We want to make sure that everybody is on the same page. Doing life together in Christian community is sort of like running a three-legged race; progress only happens when we work together striving for the same goal. We will be having opportunities to sit down together and learn some important lessons. Further, as people get integrated into the areas that they feel called to serve, we will need to learn some processes so that there is consistency and excellence in all that we do.
Finally, I want to invite you to pray. It’s been said, “One should never initiate something that he cannot saturate with prayer.” Our heart from the beginning has been to see God move in a fresh and new way through the Tri-State area and specifically on the Westside. We are going to be encouraging you to pray. Starting next Monday, we will be re-launching the email blasts with specific ways to pray for the Westside. If you are interested in receiving those blasts, let us know so we can add you to the distribution list.
These are exciting times. I cannot wait to see what God has in store as we spend our one life in service to Him.
Monday, February 14, 2011
Seeing the Future
Monday, January 24, 2011
Second Look @ Sunday
- You have to get to AMC Stadium 16 pretty early to beat Marty Smith there. When I got there, he had already worked up enough of a sweat that he needed to take off his jacket (his hat).
- Thankful for Ascended. They worked hard and it clearly paid off.
- By the way guys, if you have a Twitter account, use it.
- Was surprised to see Lindy Weatherly join us. Anxious to hear her notes from the service.
- Big idea: God is always faithful and He is still in the redemption business.
- In what part of your life do you need to experience redemption?
- So sweet to see some of our people serving the residents of Riverwalk Communities. Here's the proof that I even participated.
- Had a great time at lunch hearing one of my high school friends share her heart for missions. It is amazing what God is doing in her life. Abso-freakin-lutely Amazing.
- Sad news came to me on Sunday night: another friend from the youth group I grew up (quite literally) in passed away Sunday morning. I got a chance to spend a few moments with him on Saturday evening. Not enough time in hindsight. He truly was semper fi (always faithful).
- Finally: looking forward to a great Super Bowl with two legendary teams. Now just have to determine the perfect venue to watch it at.
Thursday, January 20, 2011
Why I'm Excited (part 4)
Wednesday, January 19, 2011
Why I'm Excited (part 3)
Tuesday, January 18, 2011
Thrown Under the Bus

Monday, January 17, 2011
Second Look @ Sunday
- Thanks to all the Discovery volunteers who came early to help make sure things went smoothly. Your consistent service is inspiring.
- Thanks to the One Life tech team that came to inspire our production team. Thanks to all the sound, light, and CG volunteers.
- Thanks to Second. Can't wait for you guys to come back. ;-)
- Thanks to Bret Nicholson for challenging us via video. If you missed the video, you can watch it here.
- Bret taught from John 4. Great story.
- "Jesus did not just want her as a convert; He wanted her to be a worshiper."
- So exciting to see new faces and familiar faces back at Discovery.
- Blessed beyond belief by a great family. Unfortunately, Morgan had to miss the big day due to a stomach bug. My mom stepped up big for us and watched her.
- Can't believe the Patriots lost (and the state of Indiana rejoices)!
Thursday, January 13, 2011
Why I'm Excited (part 2)

Tuesday, January 11, 2011
Why I'm Excited (part 1)
Monday, January 10, 2011
Second Look @ Sunday
- Had a great time visiting with Kitten's siblings this weekend. I've been blessed with some fantastic in-laws.
- Speaking of blessings: the nephews came too! Love those guys.
- Alyssa did an incredible job as a cheerleader at the Reitz game on Saturday night. So stinking cute I'm going to have to hire a militia in a few years to keep the boys away.
- Our set-up team is pretty much the most amazing thing since Bacon Bandages. By the way, if we had those in my house, I'd get paper cuts all the time.
- We had a worship team emergency when the drummer went down on Saturday night. God blessed us with an amazing last minute fill-in. Thanks Chris Clark!
- Had a great time looking John 4 on Sunday morning. Pretty amazing how Jesus meets us right where we are and takes us where we could not go on our own.
- He truly is all we need.
- Congregational meeting after service went really well. We talked about the elders' recommendation to transition to the One Life Network. Exciting times.
- Coming this week: why I'm excited about the One Life Network. Can't wait to share some of what excites me about this possibility.
Friday, January 7, 2011
Insights from "It: How Churches and Leaders Can Get it and Keep it"
- "...it is what God does through a rare combination of these qualities found in his people: passion for his presence, a deep craving to reach the lost, sincere integrity, Spirit-filled faith, down-to-earth humility, and brokenness."
- "It tends to follow big vision." Cast crazy big vision that is rooted in what God has called and gifted you uniquely to do.
- "Teamwork is the fuel that allows common people to attain uncommon results." I could write for days on this one thought. I am so thankful for the team that God has surrounded me with, the team that He has assembled at Discovery. They make life (and ministry) so much fun.
- Push past the local max. Groeschel draws on Seth Godin's work to say that we need to be willing to fail (and sometimes fail big) in order to see the very best innovations come to life. We need to be willing to push through the failure to experience it.
- "Let him stretch you. Attempt what others says can't be done. You have more in you than you realize. God has put more in you than anyone else sees."
Thursday, January 6, 2011
Why I'm Excited...by Tammy Sutton
Over the last several weeks members of the Discovery Church leadership team (the elders and staff) have been sharing some of what has them excited about partnering with One Life. Our fifth installment has been written by Tammy Sutton. Tammy is one of Discovery's elders, in addition to serving as the chief financial person (CFP?).
Most people that know me know I have a passion for projects that involve serving others. One of the most exciting things for me about One Life is the expanded opportunities that it will give us as a church to be a servant. To steal a quote from the One Life Church website, “Jesus lived compassion. We want to follow His lead and share his compassion both locally and globally.” Compassion is the word One Life uses to address these service projects. It involves opportunities for us to serve others ranging from our local neighborhood to those living on the other side of the world.
I like the approach that One Life takes on serving others. They not only look at the immediate needs for food, clothing and shelter, but at the issues that are causing the underlying poverty. They encourage economic growth of the community through micro financing and industry development. Part of the systemic change involves providing clean water for the area. The local residents are trained in various methods to treat and purify the water, resulting in a reduction of diseases and illnesses. Tools such as job training and furthering education enable those in poverty more opportunities to make a sustainable living. The local culture remains intact when implementing these methods that allow for a higher standard of living, and leadership of the community develops from within the native people.
Wednesday, January 5, 2011
FAQs re:Staffing and Leadership
Tuesday, January 4, 2011
Why I'm Excited...by Marty Smith
Over the last several weeks members of the Discovery Church leadership team (the elders and staff) have been sharing some of what has them excited about partnering with One Life. Our fourth installment has been written by Marty Smith. Marty is one of Discovery's elders and helps lead our set-up and First Impressions teams.
The thing that is most exciting to me about our partnership with One Life is seeing God at work through His people. I am talking about the other elders and staff of Discovery. In every meeting we have had, it has been awesome to feel the presence of God. It is amazing to see how God uses the strength of every person to accomplish what I think is the shared goal of One Life and Discovery. I love seeing Tammy light up when an opportunity for missions arises. I'm encouraged by how Jack shows genuine care and concern about the feelings of others and how we can demonstrate God's love to them. I appreciate the insightful input that Janet and Kitten have offered. I'm thankful for Trey's direction to look at the big picture. I am very thankful that God has placed me here, to add what I can and enjoy the ride. I truly believe what my favorite passage from scripture says: “Trust in the Lord with all your heart leaning not on your own understanding. Acknowledge him in all your ways and he will keep your path straight” (Prov. 3:5-6).
I am so excited because Discovery and One Life share the same vision. Discovery has always focused on those who do not like church and church planting. The main focus of One Life perfectly aligns with Discovery in that regard. It is so exciting to see God coordinating our efforts.
Personally I am excited because this new partnership could expand the influence and ministry we have. One of my big passions is student ministry; my prayer is that we could make a significant impact in the lives of the next generation.
In closing, I would like to encourage each of you to pray about and or ask questions about this partnership. Let’s all enjoy the ride!!
Note: Hey, Chase and Nick, I made it through this entire post without a cheesy joke…. Until now…What do you call a big white animal shaped like a tooth? A molar bear! LOL
Monday, January 3, 2011
Second Look @ Sunday
- Christmas Eve was incredible! Where to start....thanks to our set-up team for showing up in the midst of the first round of snow storms to unload the trailer at Bob's.
- Thanks to the band who came together to lead us in worship.
- Thankful for those who helped tear down and load up so that everyone could enjoy Christmas.
- Got a chance to worship with my sister-in-law's family last week. Got to see my oldest nephew profess his faith in Christ and follow Him in baptism. Awesome.
- It was really cool to be able to sit with Alyssa (the 6-year old) and join her in worship. She's learned to read which makes it much easier for her to sing corporately. So cool to hear her sing praises to God with me.
- Many people are ashamed or embarrassed by their in-laws. Mine are pretty incredible. Had a great time with them.
- The gym is getting busy. We closed out the month on a great note. Thankful for a great team there too.
- Loved the job the worship team did leading. If you're not worshiping, it's a you issue. Really cool to see people like Chet and Chance set free to use all their gifts and abilities to the fullest.
- Can't imagine what life would be without our Children's Ministry volunteers. Thanks for all you do!
- Guess which movie was showing in the same theater as we set up our nursery? Yep...this one.
- "The only thing worse than being blind is having sight and no vision." -- Helen Keller
- Thankful that Jesus does not go for the Dream Team, but chooses the dropout and flunkies, the less-desirables, me.
- Got a chance to talk with someone tonight about what it means to be a Jesus-follower. Praying for her as she studies Jesus, His life and ministry, and His call on her life.
- Already getting excited about next week. I've got people in mind to invite; do you?
Thursday, December 16, 2010
Why I'm Excited...by Janet Oberholtzer
Over the next six weeks, members of the Discovery Church leadership team (the elders and the staff) will be sharing some of what has them so excited about partnering with One Life. Our third installment has been written by Janet Oberholtzer. Janet serves as the Small Groups Director and Other Titles as Assigned when she has the microphone.
I think one of the things I’m most excited about is the change I’ve seen in my heart as I’ve entered into this process. When Trey first suggested the idea to me, I was hesitant. I wasn’t sure about what One Life was all about or who their leaders were. I wasn’t excited about leaving the Evangelical Presbyterian Church. God has brought me past my initial hesitancies to willingly and whole heartedly say “Yes!” Here’s a little bit about how that happened,
My first introduction to One Life was at a preview service in October. I saw there that God had done incredible things to bring the church body together and provide the venue. From what I saw and heard that night, I sensed a church with a heart and vision similar to that of Discovery. I then learned that God blessed their first Sunday morning service with nearly a thousand people. I was excited to keep my eye on this congregation and what God was doing in her midst. Later that week, we met with a leadership team that was blown away by what God had done, grappling with what that meant in their personal and professional life and wondering what God would do next outside of the four walls of their facility in Henderson. At that point enthusiasm was high, but how Discovery could be involved was yet to be discerned.
As leaders from both sides continued to pray about this, we continued to ponder “What if?” My hesitancies about leaving the EPC began to fade as I saw the strength, wisdom and humilty of the leadership of One Life. I saw men with a heart to build God’s kingdom, not their own, men who have a track record of being faithful leaders and servants. While being with a denomination ties a church to a rich tradition and offers accountability, serving under a group of leaders who have walked with God for years and hold each other accountable is also a gift.
I’d kind of felt like Discovery was “at capacity” with our current infrastructure and resources, I think we all have great dreams for the future; however the future seems a bit far and distant as we look at our current reality. Linking arms with One Life feels like tapping into synergy (a force created by two entities that is stronger than each one could do individually). Instead of developing our own small group, teaching and mission strategies, we could plug into an existing plan and focus our energies uniquely on the West Side of Evansville.
What draws my heart most about the Westside is USI. I was thrilled when I learned of the heart that One Life leadership has for reaching out to students at USI and excited when I realized that my ten years of working in collegiate ministry could be utilized in helping us reach out to university students if only I had time and resources to focus.
In short, (perhaps too late to say?), as I thought about where we want to go as Discovery and I thought about where God is leading One Life, I saw a common vision and direction. There may be some logistical and technical differences, but the heart is the same. As I think about the thousands of students that will come and go from USI every four years, wondering if they will have the opportunity to hear the gospel, I thought how could we not link arms with One Life and give this a shot? Sure, we may lose some things in the transition, but when I think about what we can do for the kingdom of God together, I can’t imagine not taking the risk. I think our unification honors Christ and his church, his church for which he endured birth, suffering and death. His Church for which He rose again. His church which He will be coming again to claim as His own. May God be glorified and honored above all else as we contemplate this decision.